Rewriting the rules of success — self-sabotage

The opposite of the testimonial, AKA 5 reasons why some of my clients never created the success story they were destined to have

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The opposite of the testimonial, AKA 5 reasons why some of my clients never created the success story they were destined to have

I am writing to you fellow coach about the coaching clients whom no matter what, will not break through. Have you come across with clients like that? I have. I believe you have too

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Self-abandonment is the symptom of something that has happened a long time ago

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Self-abandonment is the symptom of something that has happened a long time ago

I know I have mentioned it before, there is this trait in most of us as entrepreneurs: We are quick to start new things, but not so great in finishing them. And I do recognise that in myself. We move fast to the next thing, and we are always looking for that bright and shiny object. 

(Which reminds me to remind you about the Black Friday and Cyber Monday opportunity that is going away at Cinderella time today. However, this program doesn't qualify as something you can dismiss when something brighter comes along...in this one, you are required to commit - all the way through. But you can, because I have built it so, that you can.)

So the bright and shiny object syndrome keeps us always reaching for that next thing. Whatever that thing is, that takes us from the current thing we are doing. We get bored, and tedious tasks amplify the need to move onto the next thing.

It would be okay unless it wouldn't automatically mean, that you have your drawers filled with unfinished projects. 

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Small stories of not so small fears: How subtle the fear can be

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Small stories of not so small fears: How subtle the fear can be

EVERYONE experiences fears. The difference in the well-being (and financial success) of Entrepreneurs is in their ability to tackle fears that come up.

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Enough with the fear and overwhelm

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Enough with the fear and overwhelm

We think we need to put ourselves through these intense emotions because we feel, that if we don't do it, nothing gets done and we will not move forward. So we do what we have learned so well. We use willpower and try to make ourselves move forward until our conscious mind finds some little detail, that gives us the perfect excuse to stop, and that my friend, is the recipe for self-abandonment and self-sabotage. The ideal method to become paralysed by fear.

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