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Online Marketing is for Luddites too - The Time is Now!

Online marketing is not rocket science - although it can get a bit technical. It isn't brain-science either - although it surely can feel like it at times. It is a fabulous way of marketing, and it can be irresistible, attractive inspiring and helpful. You can fall in love with it for sure.

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Your decision-making abilities and self-image predict your success

"Success and failure are the results of the use of mind. Every success-motivated mind has been a decisive mind. Every failure-motivated mind has been an indecisive mind. Only the dreamer who acted with a decision on his dream brought forth something new and valuable." Raymond Charles Barker said this in his book The Power of Decision. Did you know, the word decide comes from Latin origin and literally means to cut off other options? When you make a decision, cut off any other options, then the wishy-washy washes away, and you have an opportunity to move forward with the determination, passion and joy to accomplish whatever it is you have set yourself out to accomplish.This reminds me of the story...

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Start again - again and again - it's day one

What happens when you lose focus during the work, and you find yourself on Facebook? What do you do when you are taking a course you really wanted to, and yet it's on the verge of becoming yet another course that you start and won't finish? What do you do when you decide to exercise every day and miss a day? What do you do when you meditate, and the mind begins to wander? You do the same thing: You start again.As any mother steering the kids through school knows, that at some point, the child will fall off the wagon. The job is not to stop them from falling off, the job is to dust them off and get...

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Release your Need for People to be a Certain Way

Since last spring, huge changes and shifts began to take place, and I was resisting in every way I could. It has been a massive year for me, and let me tell you this: It isn't over yet! At the beginning of November, we are starting a new phase in our family life. My husband accepted a job in Finland and will be living there during the weeks and flying back to the Netherlands for the weekends. It is the first time in our marriage (we did this as teenagers when we spent a year apart as exchange students) we are deliberately setting ourselves in the situation where we are apart every week - a whole week. I remember once...

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